Who is the self in self-control?

Most of us think that we struggle with control, but what I think we are really struggling with is the "self." Who is in control anyways? Without a leader within us there is no way for things to fall in order. We have so many conscious and unconscious influences on us that it is one's sense of self that obscures who is actually making decisions. Find the self and you will find-out who is steering the wheel.

Try spending more time with less thoughts and outside stimulus to find yourself, then you will have more control in your life.