The flip side of modesty is respect. As you make sure not to take more than you need , make sure that you allow for the differences between yourself and others. Different ways that we process, store, and communicate information make us seemingly very different creatures. We may have great differences in the way we see the world, but we can respect even our greatest enemies and through this respect strengthen our own position.
Respect precludes that we do not have to be correct! Righteousness should not be used as justification for greediness. Modesty and respect can resolve at least 80% of conflicts. When our will pushes into another's will, it like deciding to invade a foreign land and must be done with full justification.
Sparring is a great opportunity to explore protecting our own boundaries, yet not abusing our sparring partner. Using modesty and respect will help you to become a victor and respected martial artist.
Monday, October 12, 2009
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